The desire to work well together is innate; the ability to work well together is learned.

We are animals that want to congregate and build relationships. We want to be bonded and look for a certain degree of intimacy at work. How we bond and how we work together is something that is learned in a different way in each individual’s life. The healthy group will create learning experiences that explore how to work well together, how to relate well to each other and how to get what they want together.  Because you think you want something does not mean you know how to get it. All of us want to work together; most of us need to learn how.